He retrieved the card from his wallet and gave it an appreciative look. Gazing at it, he smiled as he recalled how this small card had been big in bringing significant changes for him and family. The card that earned the gratitude and admiration of Towkay Tan – as he is known to his workers and customers of his hardware shop – is a custody card that he received for the safe keeping of his Will in a Will custody centre. Tan never imagined that this custody card had made such a huge difference for him. He had been at wits’ end trying both hard and soft approaches in getting his two lazy sons to buck up and take a greater interest in the family business.
He had wielded the big stick. Reprimanded them. Cajoled them. Even resorted to incentivising them, but all to no avail. There had been many a day when even three to four hours after the hardware shop had opened its doors and customers had already streamed in and out, his two sons were nowhere to be seen. Even they were in the shop, they would more often than not be chatting on the phone, playing games on their smart phone or PC – just doing everything else other than attending to customers and minding the business.
But of late, they had just transformed. They turned up earlier and earlier and just the date before, Son No.2 opened the doors for business, something he had not done in a very long time.They were showing more interest in the business. Son No.1 also consulted him and bounced ideas off him on how to grow the business further. This transformation came about after he gathered his family members around and showed them the custody card. Casually, he told them that he has written his will and kept them in a will custody centre. The card will allow him to retrieve it anytime to re-write his will. He expressed the wish that when he is not around the business would continue as it had kept the family going for three decades. He also casually remarked that he would change the inheritance distribution proportions and leave more for the one who contributed towards building the family business and less to the one who continued to be indifferent.
The intention was to let the family members know where his Will was kept. His spur-of-the-moment remark on reviewing his estate plan was unplanned. But it created the impact and brought about the changes he had so much wanted. Tan learnt that after showing the custody card, he had the unexpected help from his daughters-in-law. They had been nagging their husbands and getting them to leave the house early and pay greater attention to the business. Tan did the right thing in informing family members where his will is kept and in also entrusting its safe keeping with a dedicated custody centre.
Hiding a will to keep it away from prying eyes and not telling anyone where it is kept is as good as not having a will if it cannot be found after one passes on. Keeping a will in a custody centre not only ensures that the contents are kept away from prying eyes; it ensures that it can only be retrieved by person authorised by the testator. It is also not just safekeeping from unauthorised persons and tampering but safekeeping from the ravages of exposure.